Is it ok to lie?
In the article Is It Ever Okay to Tell a Lie? Here's a formula for calculating the risk involved in telling a lie by Suzanne Degges-White Ph.D it says that you can lie as long as it’s to protect someone's feelings.
I
don’t agree with this because you want to tell the honest truth. If you tell a
little lie you might have to keep on lying from then on. The article says “Plus, once you tell a lie (say, claiming
LeBron James is your cousin), you might have to tell more lies to keep up the
charade” Sometimes one lie can lead to the next and then you will have to keep
lying about something and once you get caught it’s not going to be fun.
Lying to help your friend out maybe ok but
just flat lying for no reason or to keep yourself from trouble is not OK.. When
I was little I would ask my mom where I came from. Since I was adopted my told
me that I came from my biological mom’s tummy and then I would get mad.
Eventually my mom said “you came from my tummy” so that I would quit being mad.
But even when my mom lied it still wouldn’t
change anything cause I already knew I was adopted and somehow I knew I didn’t
grow in her tummy. About a year later when I was five I asked my mom if she would tell me the truth
no matter what. She said yes. I asked her whose tummy I came from and she said
Jennie’s. Then I asked my mom again if
she would always tell me the truth. She said yes. I then asked her if Santa was real and she said no.
After
that I went around and told everyone that Santa wasn’t real. I I told people in
my kindergarten class, I told people in the line waiting to see Santa. When
that happened my mom told me that I can’t say that so I was confused because it
was the truth. And I think white lies are dumb because the truth will set you
free :D.
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